No More Assholes: Your 7 Step Guide to Saying Goodbye to Guys and Finding The Real Man You're Looking For (Dating & Relationship)

This is one of my favorites of hers. Even if you are not dating right now, this book is incredibly insightful. It really feels like one on one coaching. It is easy to read and flows smoothly. I felt my confidence building throughout each section. And now, when I am ready to date again, I feel confident that I have the perfect method to facilitate that process. This book helped me grow so much as a person and really take control of my life. I loved it.

I was in an abusive relationship, Like abusive in every way. This book saved my life. I was able to dig deep and find the confidence within my power to leave. I cant express how thankful i am, im beautiful and i deserve the best & i was able to come to this conclusion because of this book. Thank you!!

This book shifted my mind and how i relate to dating. It helped me get clear on what i wanted and navigate my own anger and frustration and now im dating a man that is all the values i want in a partner. It’s amazing. He just showed up in my life. Only thing that’s not so good is it could be edited again. There are a ton of typos and spelling errors which a simple editor could fix. It’s for sure worth it though! I suggest getting it and make sure you actually read it.

Great book as a joke or

First couple chapters is good, great for first time readers, however it does get confusing afterwards. This book is helpful and relatable.

I first heard about this book from the author on Tik-Tok. I had somewhat recently come out of a toxic relationship. I had a friend who was going to set me up with somebody "when I was ready". I decided after reading part of the book and doing some of the steps that I should begin my journey into finding someone who is right for me long-term. This book illuminated a lot of the issues I had in previous relationships. We're at times I thought I was dating men oh, it is clear I was dating guys. My most recent relationship was very clearly a case of dating a guy instead of dating a man. I have been so used to being the one who picks up the bill, pays when the other just can't seem to afford it right now, or giving a lot more than receiving. I told my friend that if the person she wanted me to talk to was interested that they could message me. He did and we started talking just to kind of get to know each other a little bit. During this time I was still reading this book. About a month of innocent, no expectation talking through text, we decided to meet. The first time I knew this book was working, is when we were deciding if we should go out to a public place to meet and he admitted that at the moment he hadn't been paid yet and he wasn't comfortable to pay for a date yet so we shouldn't. My first response was almost " I can pay. "This is a bad habit of mine that I truly need to stop. So I stopped. I didn't say that. Instead I said okay we can wait or think of something else that won't cost money. throughout reading the book I realize he showed one of the first true signs of being a man and not just a guy. He was taking responsibility of his own financial situation, but wasn't asking me to take responsibility for it. As I continue to read this book and continued on with this new budding relationship of sorts, I did tell him during our first date, that I would be interested in a three months no kissing rule. I completely thought that this was going to run him off. He seems like a great guy and we had a lot in common but this concept is so outside of societal norms that I was sure he went want to stick around or wait. To my pleasure, he agreed. Though he admitted it could be hard at times, he did say he would not push the issue and would wait until I was ready. I couldn't believe that this book and it's advice was working so quickly and so soon for me. Having been in relationships that were toxic, or that were full of doing all the wrong things for the wrong reasons, I now not only had control of the path I was on in this relationship but I had someone who was supportive of it. And the kicker is he didn't even know me that well and he was willing to wait. I've never felt so great. So far we haven't quite reached the three-month timeline just yet, but as we're coming up to it we have learned a lot about each other without the pressure of kissing and more. Our time is not consumed with activities that don't get us to know each other on a deeper level. and it shows me that if he is willing to wait the three months just to kiss me, that he could be someone that could stick it out even longer. I also enjoy this book for quoting a lot of different resources and excellent quotes from pop culture. For example my favorite quote from pirates of the Caribbean Jack Sparrow "the problem is not the problem the problem is your attitude about the problem. " So I suggest for anyone who has read this far, and is looking to change bad habits with dating bad guys, get this book, read this book, follow this book, and receive the love you truly do deserve. Then of course rate this book with a review on your own success.

This book is a great tutorial to find your perfect match. It teaches how a person can set standards and boundaries in order to find a healthy long term relationship.

I first came across this author/book on tiktok while going through a hard time in my past relationship where I used the app as a way to "forget" and frankly, be "numb." I loved the content that Chantel talks about and long story short, I ended my very toxic relationship and purchased this book shortly after. I knew once I read the first few pages that this book was going to be life changing for me as I just don't have a knack for choosing the best partners for relationships. To be fair, it isn't just my choices that I need to reevaluate, but I need to also work on myself as well which the author discusses throughout this book. The one thing that is considered the most "controversial" topic for a LOT of people (mainly guys from my observations), and the main reason why I purchased this book is the "no kissing for 3 months" dating rule. This is a rule that I am the most excited about and I cannot wait to use when the time is right for me. Chantel talks about her own experience with implementing this rule in her relationship and how it worked for her, and she is still married to him to this day. Her story is something that I hope to one day have for myself as well, again, when the time is right. Needless to say, if you are not that lucky in relationships like myself, and you are looking for something different from how you normally go about dating, then this book is definitely a read you should consider. Chantel tells you exactly what you need to hear, and she gives you the steps on how to go about it when you are ready to get yourself back out there into the dating ring. She helps you distinguish between a "guy" and a "man," and like the title states, helps you from dating "No More As$holes."